Despite paradoxes inherent in male sex in addition to tradition that encourages males to possess intercourse with females while simultaneously degrading them if you are ready to achieve this, it really is my belief so it’s feasible to obtain the intercourse you need while also perhaps not as an asshole. Most likely, talking strictly from a posture of enlightened self-interest, a tradition where ladies aren’t addressed simultaneously as sex things and then slut-shamed by the males that want them to be sex objects is really a tradition where women can be going to be more prepared to go to town intimately. Hence, we encourage guys become sex-positive but in addition to consider the intercourse they desire in a manner that doesn’t make females uncomfortable or cast them in a role that is antagonistic. Or it: “Fuck Like A Gentleman” as I like to call.
Nevertheless the sex-positive, collaborative view of sex goes beyond simply the work of attempting to pick somebody up; it continues well to the room too. Continue reading